Want to Unite America?

For four decades, gay rights activists and couples who appealed to the courts for the right to marry their partners were fighting against a legal system. The real battle, however, was against public perception. Evan Wolfson, founder of the national bipartisan organization Freedom to Marry, outlines the strategy that transformed public understanding and led to a triumph in the Supreme Court in June 2015.

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It wasn’t the legal appeals or height of the headlines that brought marriage equality to gay people, Wolfson says, rather it was millions of quieter, more personal conversations “around coffee tables and living rooms and water coolers in offices” that became the necessary engine of change. It’s much more difficult to deny a person a basic human right one on one, face to face. Wolfson opens his strategic playbook to Americans in a time of cavernous political division.

“The elements of success [of Freedom to Marry] are very applicable and adaptable… for other causes, other organizations, other countries, other ways of moving our society forward, getting our country back on track, and making a better world,” he says. Wolfson and the marriage equality story are the subject of the new documentary The Freedom to Marry, in cinemas now.