Being a gay woman in Trump’s America

“I am a gay woman with a Jewish surname, now questioning whether I will be prevented from marrying whom I love, be denied access to adequate women’s health care, or be victim of anti-Semitism,” writes Audrey Goldfarb, sports editor at University of Rochester, New York’s paper
Audrey Goldfarb

Audrey Goldfarb

For the majority of my young life, I was constantly reminded by many of my peers that my sexual identity was immoral and offensive.

Some of my best friends were outwardly and shamelessly homophobic, and I genuinely believed that I would become estranged from them if I chose to come out. A typical young girl’s fear of rejection, and a desire for acceptance, deeply affected my high school experience.

When I came to UR, I felt unshackled, free to love whomever I wanted, and confident that my expressions of that love would be respected and viewed as normal. After a year of adjusting to this newfound acceptance, I stopped hesitating when introducing my girlfriend to others.

Walking hand-in-hand across campus with another girl felt unremarkable. When meeting new people, I didn’t feel that my sexuality was an elephant in the room that needed to be addressed—it came up as naturally as if I had been straight.

I felt comfortable in my own skin for the first time. I began to believe that the oppressive elements of the community where I grew up represented an ignorant minority in a greater and more enlightened America.

Last Wednesday at 3 a.m., I came to the sudden realization that I had been naïve.

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